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| | Get rid of the fear of failure Some people, like the aforementioned boy, have very restrictive criteria for success and failure criteria is nothing but a type of belief: - I feel / When I refer a success ... - I feel / assume failure if ... These beliefs, as you know, generate our feelings regardless of whether they are feelings of support, such as self-confidence and determination, such as whether the restrictive sense of powerlessness and low self-esteem. If you have restrictive criteria, which means that it is very easy to allow yourself the feeling of defeat and you feel it is difficult to succeed, be prepared for the lack of results known in the art of pickup. Irrespective of your performance and professionalism will always find a hole in the whole and thus a way of feeling unwell. View sample restrictive criteria: I have the success if: - All my podryw is successful. -Every girl that undermines be delighted me. - Girls talk my compliments. referring fail if: - Girl does not want to make an appointment with me. - Someone has a \"better\" girl. - Some girl for me unpleasant or ignores me. Are you aware of \"toxicity\" of such criteria? Whether you could constantly podrywać girl with such criteria? Of course not, because the result is a feeling of powerlessness, defeat and reduced self-esteem. Note that in case of such criteria, the center of the creation of emotions is shifted out. In other words, if you feel the success or defeat, depends on the girl\'s reaction, which undermines. Accustom to the idea that she will not always agree to meet with you. There is the world\'s someone who would be attractive to all people. Even the mythical Cassanowa frequented by celebrated empty-handed is not one woman. Therefore, it is important to your feeling of success depend on you. If you do not and your feeling of success will depend on the results achieve is standing on the lost position, because there will always be a few girls who will not be answered. If I stop the feeling of success associated with the results of their podrywów, it will become I effective? No! I do not recommend you to nieprzywiązywania attention to picking up girls, but only to a new approach to this issue. nowe mieszkania | New Moon Stephenie Meyer | Lampy |