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| | What stopped me? What prevents you? It is mainly fear of failure and / or rejection. It is feared that the measure will bring you a feeling of failure and / or a feeling of rejection. Neither the failure or rejection does not exist in the real world and is not something substantive. These are only feelings, or biochemical storms hormones in your brain that are caused not by reality but only through its interpretations. In other words, nothing and nobody except you can not bring you the feelings of defeat and failure. Only you, by way of interpretation of reality, you can create these feelings in themselves. I do not know whether you\'re aware that you have your own criteria for success and failure. Just as each person created their own standards by which to generate a feeling of failure and success. Some people have such restrictive personal criteria that often suffer from feelings of failure and feelings almost never succeed. Once I met a guy who argued that no matter how trying it would still not be successful with women. How do I guess I wanted to show him that it is wrong and I started to do some exercises with him. At the beginning helped him define his goals and get motivated by a combination of suffering from the condition of not having a girl and przyjemnośi of picking up girls. Then led him through several techniques to change limiting beliefs and acquainted with a number of effective strategies, which read in previous chapters. After two hours of training came to the conclusion that it is ready for action and decided to go with him \"in the area.\" We went to the center and decided to see what the results bring us earlier workouts. I thought that after several successful podrywach boy feels that finally succeeded, and grant me a right, but things were to overthrow a little differently. To my satisfaction the boy acted like a real pro. Approached very attractive girls dating dating and took phone numbers. Out of ten girls, who caught only two refused to meet him. He had eight dates in your calendar, which twice exceeded the number of meetings with the girls in the past two years. When the great satisfaction and satisfaction with myself I asked him if he now feels he is successful, to my surprise his response was: - Well what have you. Of course not. This answer me a bit so I told rozdrażniła - How is it that you do not feel successful? After zorganizowałeś the 8 dates with beautiful women, within just 40 minutes? It\'s more games than you had in the past two years. His answer was more or less. - It\'s not important that 8 girls with me umówiło. To feel that successful with women, no girl can not refuse me, and all must be nice for me. I have to see that all the girls liked me. Lampy | Program TV | randki online |