| Fear is not bad |
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| | As you can see the fear in itself is not something bad, we want to get rid of. It is needed in certain situations, and the unnecessary and harmful in others. In an era in which we live is a minor situation directly threatening our lives. Wild animals at the zoo we find only a precaution and the chances of death due to murder is very small. However, despite the few life-threatening situation, \"fear\" we use too often. Do you propose a date unknown girl can lose his life? If we assume that this is not a lover of the famous gangster, our chances of death are equal to zero. Why, then, most people generate this emotion called fear, which is somewhat inadequate for this situation? As you can see you do not want to get rid of fear, only to learn how to use it only in situations where it should use, that is when your life is directly threatened. Fear, as you learned in the previous chapter, it is only emotion, or biochemical storm in your nervous system. As you know, it arises in two ways: either by tuning the relevant physiology, or by trimming the object of concentration. If we consider the fear associated with picking up girls trigger it is mainly the subject of concentration, in other words, quite enough to support a filter of reality. Fear of creating something like this. You are walking down the street and you see a very attractive girl. Decides to make an appointment with her, but before taking any action intentionally or not watching a movie in your mind where you see yourself assume failure. You see a girl like you refuse, you feel this overwhelming sense of failure and rejection and all this generates a feeling called fear of failure. In most cases, things that we fear not happen, and not achieve the objectives just because we lack the courage to even try. Probably agree with me that many times are not familiar with the girls only because they were afraid of failure and rejection. I had in my life very much such a situation, and now I know that if I only dared to begin the acquaintance of several girls, he would have me to be successful oświetlenie | prace magisterskie | program do faktur |